Get Out of the Norm

I am not a big fan of the bachelor shows but the new installment is called More to Love. We see big size women competeing for a big sized man. I was really glad we were finally going to see some larger women on the screen looking for true love. In support, I decided to watch it. Thus far, it has been disappointing. Instead of seeing empowered women who love and accept themsleves we see mostly insecure girls, a lot of crying and the hoping someone else will accept them so they can feel better about themselves. Here is a clue you need to love and accept yourself first!

I used to diet on 1500 calories, worked out like a mad woman and would lose a large amount of weight. Ineveitably, I would gain it back. In my 40’s after a serious illness, I gained a ton of weight. NO matter how I tried to diet, I just could not do it. I then found the group overcoming overeating. This was the beginning of my healing. It is an excellent thought system and I urge everyone to check it out. I don’t agree with every single thing they recommend but it really turned the tide for me. God being the Great King He is, He knew I needed another healing not a weight loss. So, my 40’s was about me learning to love myself as is. Also, learning to deal with my food addictions like binging. Instead of hiding my food, I brought it out in the open. You should have seen my husband’s face the first time I drug out a whole cake and started eating! It was a hoot and soo liberating. No more hiding my secret addiction. I don’t eat whole cakes anymore and that was part of my healing. This love for myself became the real me not one contigent on my numbers.

My personal goal is doing portions, keeping up with my excercise and not using food to fill up my void. Do I fall from this direction yea I sure do. More often then not though I stay on it. If I lose weight great, if I don’t I won’t lose sleep over it. I don’t have any health problems so my curves are not a health threat. Government is trying to create this idea that all those with any fat on them pose health problems. It is a load of crap. There are many curvy women who have perfect heatlh stats and dont’ need to lose weight for health. I am not suggesting if you are morbidly obese you should not lose weight. What I am saying is we must work on the inside before we see something different on the outside. I am also saying we are all indviduals built differently. We are not all one size nor are we suppose to be!

We have been brainwashed in this society and told if we don’t look like hollywood beauties we are ugly. I argue you are not allowed to feel good about yourself if you are large in this country. It is better to be a smoker or hooked on heroine then be heavy. Look at Anna Nicole Smith. This society is obsessed by size. . More to Love has missed the point. I want to see large women in charge. I want to see us women loving ourselves as we are right now. This journey is personal but we also have some things in common.

We should be willing to change the climate in this country about size. Instead of feeling bad about who we are, we need to say no to the outrageous bias. I make no apologies for who I am and yes I feel good just like this. I am healthy and I am no size 2. There are many of us curvey women that are doing just fine. I was hoping More to Love would show that side of the story. Instead we see a lot of 20 something women who are unhappy with their size and they lack acceptance of self and project that on to society.

I can not take it anymore! I can not believe the propaganda of this administration. We have the likes of Barbara Boxer attacking Americans for showing up at Town Hall meetings outraged over 8 months of illegal maneuvers by Obama and his Hench men. Hey Barbara WE ARE THE PEOPLE, we are not Obama’s sycophants. Our constitution was written to limit government and you all have taken it upon yourselves to trample on our freedoms. You bet people are showing up at Town Hall meetings angry. Why wouldn’t we be angry at an administration that is trying to take away our rights and give all power to the government? All the while raping us of our hard work by stealing our money and giving it to the Unions and others who are owed for Obama’s election. You have forgotten you represent us we don’t represent you. We could care less if our uprising hurts this President or any President. This country is not about the President and what he wants. This country is about the people and its majority. Americans have no interest in helping Obama corrupt this system worse then it already is. He has showed himself to be nothing but a liar and a coward. This is not what geniuses or true leaders are made of. He can’t tell the truth because his idea of Utopia would sink like the Titanic. Next we have Linda Douglas, the communications director for the White House, attacking Drudge and its reporting on Obama’s his health care plans. The Drudge ran a video of Obama admitting he wants a one payer system run by the government. We are also privy to a speech Barack gave back in 2002 showing his true ideology. Linda Douglas spends several minutes trying to down play the report and refutes its facts. Linda, we see Barack’s mouth moving and we hear him clearly. We don’t need your explanation of what he really said. Although Bill Maher would disagree, we are not that stupid. Then we have Robert Gibbs who spends half his time giggling when a real question comes his way. Being the spokesman for Obama he thwarted the Town Hall meetings as an angry mob. He also insisted that these people were loaded on buses by the Insurance companies as a scam. After I was done being stunned by this description, I just started laughing. These people are unraveling before our eyes. They can’t tell a fact, a truth or understand what is happening around them. They have misjudged the American people. This country was founded by men who risked their lives for FREEDOM. They created the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence so that government could not over power the people. We love our country and the families that made it possible for the United States to come into being. Barack Obama and his Chicago style corrupt politics is no match for the true American. I am appalled at the length this government has gone to lie, cheat and steal its way to the top. There were a few of us that were always awake but now we have company. Obama your time is running out. You are no match for the American heart and way of life. We understand this country is much more then a party affiliation. We ARE THE PEOPLE! We will not give up our rights, our health care, our freedoms , our law or our religion for anyone. Certainly not for someone who has no regard for the Constitution or the people it is suppose to preserve. This is called an Uprising Obama you were born to lose this fight!

It is easy to blame Obama for the situation we are in. After all, we Americans love to play the blame game. Of course, the trillions of dollars we will owe in debt is Obama’s fault but we have to admit George’s second term lacked fiscal responsibility. Having said that, this spiral did not happen over night. We could not be at this place in time had the system and it’s people not been broken a long time ago. We have become a country of little substance and Obama is happy to be our town crier. He has crammed through thoughtless and unread bills through the House and has high hopes of doing the same through the Senate. How did we get to this juncture in the first place? I believe one of the biggest movements to get us in this quandary is the New Age movement. I have studied Spiritual Metaphysics for over 10 years. The true understanding of the Metaphysical world and how it applies to matter is a life time education and diligence to practice. People have simplified the concepts of New Age and used them to create a world view. For example, we have vegetarians putting more stock in the life of an animal then they do people. Most of these fanatics are pro-choice and see no issue with the killing of millions of babies. They do take issue with killing a cow though and we must begin to ask why? We are the head of the food chain and a human life is more precious then that of an animal. Of course, I support organic farming. I have for years. I believe the food is better for you and the animals are treated with respect. I supported organic farming long before it was the in thing. I have also always been a conservative so we need to stop accepting the idea that green is only a left precept. Many vegetarians feel we all must adopt their agenda and food choices. Much like religious fanatics that only allow one type of thought. These are personal choices not moral high ground. Now Obama is using the New Age paradigm for health care and cap and trade. It is his idea of Nirvana and somehow these bills have a spiritual uniting factor to them. The misnomer would be the forcing of it upon the people. The true premise of New Age is all actions create an action and that the Universe has a principled order to it. When you are bullying and hog tying your people into life styles or lack of choice, you have misunderstood the idea of being united. . Our generation hooked on to the New Age agenda with authors like Mary Anne Williamson and Deepak Chopra. They both have had some good things to say; however, the problem lies within the interpretation that we must all come to the same resolve. According to Obama and his sycophants, that resolve is Obama world. Dr. Deepak Chopra has made huge sums of money in this great country of ours through book deals and TV appearances. He has had no problem excepting the wealth a capitalist society offers. Yet the other day he wrote an article titled “Can we stop being a super power please? This makes no sense since this country and it’s freedoms and wealth buttered his bread. I guess it is OK for him to reap the riches of our country and enjoy its freedoms but now has decided we must become more like a 3rd world nation. Bono another celebrity is known for his activism for Africa. Although a noble cause, he did not do it alone. President Bush worked with him on his Aids project and helped quite a bit. Yet, I read in an article the other day how he dodge a hug with President Bush. He seemed to be bragging about his shunning. So, the moral high road is to help Africa but shun the President of the Unites States who helped you claim that goal. These two men tout themselves as above the fray. They see themselves as men of substance yet they are jokers just feeding their own personal agendas. This is hard for me to say because I am a huge U2 fan! They cow tow to their audience and there is nothing original about them. The substance is only for what they see as important not for the good of the whole. Obama works in this same vein. He has a personal agenda and it is not for the betterment of our country. It is for his glory and aspirations of what he thinks our country should be. He lacks substance and has no understanding of a constitution that represents its people. He is spoiled and an affront to our forefathers. If you read the biography of John Adams, you will see what a true hero looks like. He understood that in shaping America and serving her best, man had to remove his ego from the process. The above men mentioned are not fit to eat at our founders same table. Our substance is only in the words not in deeds or actions. We like the idea of creating our experiences but when you study the nuts and bolts of Metaphysics it becomes a very different animal. Freedom is what creates a better man and more evolved spirit. Dictatorship breaks man and devastates spirit. We let ourselves go a long time ago and now we are reaping what we have sown. Yes, Obama is responsible for the chaos and careless acts he is making but we are responsible for giving away our freedoms so easily. Although we all did not vote for Obama, a lot of us did. This is because we seek outside ourselves for provision. Hopefully this awakened call is all we need to get back to self. If not, we surely will perish. Publish Post Save NowSave as Draft

It seems the problem we have in America is this need for an idol.  Although both black and white communities have picked Obama as a top contender this last week it seemed to be Michael Jackson.  Of course, we heard about race and somehow Michael was more black then white.  He represented the black community bla bla bla.  When are we ever going to become Americans first?!  This argument is stale, old and I for one have had enough.  It was drilled into me by this society that I was not to see color and I have lived my life that way.  I know a lot of other people that have done the same.  To the black community I say it is time to let your color go.  We have much bigger fish to fry and as Americans we must tackle them together.  

I also found out in my 20’s that I am the steward of my destiny.  If I had personal problems and excess baggage, I would have to find the answers myself.  I have spent most of my adult life getting real about who I am and what my issues are.  America could use a come to Jesus meeting for sure.  Translation, look at your own back yard!  I am convicted in my beliefs because I know who I am.  There is no void to be filled because I filled it.   It did not seem to me that Michael Jackson nor President Obama have filled their own voids.  It does seem though that America looks to these men as idols.  No flesh and blood idol can be a savior. Why has America become so needy for one?

I say it is because we have lost self.  We have become lazy and are willing to accept less than.  The black community refuses to set aside color so every single issue has to include that conflict.  Obama refuses to let go of his agenda so we must watch the greatest country in the world be sold out.  The left refuses to let go of its vile hatred for this country and pursues militantly any one that does not go along with their vitrole.  The Fundamental Right clings to judgement even though Christ specifically said do not judge.  The white community tries so hard to be politically correct that we no longer know what we truly think or feel.   All of us have chosen idols to worship over sense of self and rational thought.  We have become an insane population. If you don’t believe me , just turn on the news.  
We must turn off the white noise and look within. We need to get back to basics and understand we are Americans first.  Each one of us is here for a reason and a purpose.  In America we have forgotten the fundamental premise that each individual is responsible for their outcome.  Instead we look to Presidents and Pop stars to fill our own void.  This pattern is worn and tired.   America take a good look do you really like what you see?