70X7
Saturday, February 21st, 2009Jesus said we are suppose to forgive 70X7. That equals 490. Does this mean the 491st time we can finally walk away? I have been pondering this for awhile. Obviously, Christ was using this as a point of reference. The truth is forgiveness helps the forgiver more then the one needing forgiveness. If we hold on to hurts and grudges, we only hurt ourselves.
Having said that, it is hard to continue relationships where they seem more one sided. This is especially true with family members. Although I do believe we picked our family members before we came here, while we are here we feel our family was random. If you don’t fit in the tribe, the road seems much more bumpy. If you are always turning the other cheek, 70X7 seems daunting.
Was Jesus pointing out there is no road that leads to enough? As Christians are we called to continually rise up higher. I do know in the end, picking the road less traveled is the harder choice. Is it the better choice? I know when I surrender and let go of my stewing, I am at peace. When I chose to reminiscence on the hurts, I am in pain.
Joyce Myers says hurting people hurt people. Most don’t hurt intentionally and don’t even know they are doing it. This is probably true but there are also cases where the people know they are hurting you and have no regard. In those cases, are we still asked to come up higher? I guess the karmic principle of what goes around comes around can be applied here. Although our ego wants to strike back, 70X7 calls us to never say enough.
Blessings, Lenny